Randomness
1-Day one of my diet completed- mostly successfully. We'll see what tomorrow brings.
2- I hate that lying to my parents often causes me to lie to my sister and it's not that I think she will tell them but I dont' want to put her in that position and generally i think i am in the wrong or that she will think i'm in the wrong. i love her a lot and we are really close- mostly. Some of our values are different- or that is just what i tell myself.
3- i am really skeptical about online dating yet i persist in checking into jdate regularly- at least recently- generally it is cylical- i'll check religiously for a week or two and then stay away for a couple of months. I actually gave someone my number for the first time this week. I'm not sure why I did that and I dont' think we are really compatible. I had been corresponding with 2 people who have since dissappeared. Even I am not needy enough to chase e-guys and justify to myself as the cool confident chick move- that is my patented MO.
4- My parents friends want to set me up with a guy that I know exactly two things about- he is a neurologist and he has type 1 diabetes. Being a neurologist should not supply sufficient grounds to go out with him and should the diabetes disqualify him. I was thinking about Meredith Viera marrying someone who told her that he had MS on the first date and about Kermit- the ex who was green. Is this not a big deal? Is is not even a deal? I asked Jesse as he is really familiar with this disease as his mom was diagnosed right after she got engaged and he says that in 2006 it isn't a big deal as long as you take care of yourself. I dont' know that I take care of myself- would I if i was ill? Do I think that I should take someone who is DG (damaged goods) in some way like a gay man who wants to adopt? When I was with Kermit, I told myself that I was special because I was willing to accept this, I was a big person. Was I? Probably not, big people dont' consider themselves as such. Joey thought that my history of depression and bulimia explained my willingness to deal with his issues. Actually he felt like we were making some kind of trade. Do I think dating diabetic doctor is a way to go out with a guy that might not date me if he were healthy? do I feel like it gives me some sense of control over the relationship as the nominally healthy member? What I do isn't important but how I think about it is and more vital is what it reveals regarding what I am thinking about myself.
5- Notes to self- future posts- right amount of selfishness?, fake boyfriend crutches, friends with benefits/fb, evaluating guys as potentials, time management, buying affection, where does security come from?, on being a chocolate and on being an addict- we'll see if I flesh any of these ideas out.
2- I hate that lying to my parents often causes me to lie to my sister and it's not that I think she will tell them but I dont' want to put her in that position and generally i think i am in the wrong or that she will think i'm in the wrong. i love her a lot and we are really close- mostly. Some of our values are different- or that is just what i tell myself.
3- i am really skeptical about online dating yet i persist in checking into jdate regularly- at least recently- generally it is cylical- i'll check religiously for a week or two and then stay away for a couple of months. I actually gave someone my number for the first time this week. I'm not sure why I did that and I dont' think we are really compatible. I had been corresponding with 2 people who have since dissappeared. Even I am not needy enough to chase e-guys and justify to myself as the cool confident chick move- that is my patented MO.
4- My parents friends want to set me up with a guy that I know exactly two things about- he is a neurologist and he has type 1 diabetes. Being a neurologist should not supply sufficient grounds to go out with him and should the diabetes disqualify him. I was thinking about Meredith Viera marrying someone who told her that he had MS on the first date and about Kermit- the ex who was green. Is this not a big deal? Is is not even a deal? I asked Jesse as he is really familiar with this disease as his mom was diagnosed right after she got engaged and he says that in 2006 it isn't a big deal as long as you take care of yourself. I dont' know that I take care of myself- would I if i was ill? Do I think that I should take someone who is DG (damaged goods) in some way like a gay man who wants to adopt? When I was with Kermit, I told myself that I was special because I was willing to accept this, I was a big person. Was I? Probably not, big people dont' consider themselves as such. Joey thought that my history of depression and bulimia explained my willingness to deal with his issues. Actually he felt like we were making some kind of trade. Do I think dating diabetic doctor is a way to go out with a guy that might not date me if he were healthy? do I feel like it gives me some sense of control over the relationship as the nominally healthy member? What I do isn't important but how I think about it is and more vital is what it reveals regarding what I am thinking about myself.
5- Notes to self- future posts- right amount of selfishness?, fake boyfriend crutches, friends with benefits/fb, evaluating guys as potentials, time management, buying affection, where does security come from?, on being a chocolate and on being an addict- we'll see if I flesh any of these ideas out.
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