Dumped?

So I think Wally is breaking up with me because he thinks we might be too different and I might be too tough. He says he needs to think it through and I told him to take all the time that he needs. He says he feels like he is constantly apologizing to me and maybe that is true. Maybe I am tough on him because I wasn't scared he would leave or I didn't like him enough to care if he did. I don't know. Once I got past the initial hurt (all ten minutes of it) I realized that I really believe I am worth working hard for- I think I am something special and I don't honestly think that anything I called him out on was really unreasonable. Maybe those who get scared off are worth scaring off. Maybe I'm just being angry and defensive now, I don't know. I think I am going to go to sleep- I have to wake up early to go to the gym and I have didactics, a patient and supervision tomorrow and I am tired from spending the day editing and the evening in the ER with a rape survivor.
Anyway maybe he is just doing what I should have done but wasn't ready to- although i really think I was just giving it time. I know either way I will feel better in the morning.