Staking my claim

For quite a while now (on and off) I have been "eating out" dairy and I keep thinking that this isn't the way i am really going to live my life. So I keep it quiet and I don't really date guys who eat out. When I was talking to RMDPHDS he asked me where there was to eat in my area. So I answered that there was Village Crown and this vegan place and then I said if you eat out dairy, there are a lot of choices and then he asked me if I eat out dairy and I was a little hesitant but then I basicaly said yes and he told me and he asked me if there was any restaurant that I have been meaning to try. Lilah was surprised because she said that I wouldn't marry someone like that because of my family and I told her that I think I would, I hope that I would do what was right for me and not for them. I was pretty vague when my brother and sister asked me where I went to dinner on my date and I told them we went for fish in the neighborhood and I figured that they would interpret it on their own, when I gave my Dad that answer, he wanted a name and I told him that he wouldn't know it and then he asked again, so i lied, I told him scared chow- which is kosher but he probably wouldnt eat there. He said he never heard of it. So I guess I was only partially staking my claim.